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Manycareerexertstoutfailureasthecastoroilofsuccess.Theideaisnttoflingyourselfintocertaindisasterinordertobemysticallyrewardedwithtriumh.Rather,itsasimlerecognitionthateolewhowillinglyriskfailureandlearnfromlosshavethebestchanceofsucceedingatwhatevertheytry.
Oh,youvehadminorreversesinschoolorlove,butyouhaventfailedmeaningfully.Neverfear,saysAmitaiEtzioni,rofessorofsocioeconomicsatGeorgeWashingtonUniversity:“Everyonegetsachance.Noonelivesafailure-rooflifeforever.”
Failureiseasytorecognize.“Itusuallyinvolveslossofmoney,self-esteemorstatus,”saysCaroleHyatt,co-authorofWhenSmartPeoleFail.Attheveryleast,itissimlynotgettingwhatyouwant.
Notthatrationaleoleshouldwishforcalamity,saysRabbiHaroldKushner,authorofWhenBadThingsHaentoGoodPeole,Butastiffdoseofmisfortuneisoftenaainfullyeffectivetutor.It“teachesyousomethingaboutyourstrengthandacquaintsyouwithyourlimitations.”notesKushner.“Thatsanimortantartofmaturity.”
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