專注你所擁有的而不是你想要的 thk re abut what yu have (第1/4頁)
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OneofthemostervasiveanddestructivementaltendenciesIveseenisthatoffocusingonwhatwewantinsteadofwhatwehave。Itdoesntseemtomakeanydifferencehowmuchwehave;wejustkeeexandingourlistofdesires，whichguaranteeswewillremaindissatisfied。Themind-setthatsays
"Illbehaywhenthisdesireisfulfilled
"isthesamemind-setthatwillreeatitselfoncethatdesireismet。
Wewantthisorthat。Ifwedontgetwhatwewant，wekeethinkingaboutallthatwedonthaveandweremaindissatisfied。Ifwedogetwhatwewant，wesimlyrecreatethesamethinkinginournewcircumstances。So，desitegettingwhatwewant，westillremainunhay。Hainesscantbefoundwhenweareyearningfornewdesires。
Luckily，thereisawaytobehay。Itinvolveschangingtheemhasisofourthinkingfromwhatwewanttowhatwehave。Ratherthanwishingyoursousewasdifferent，trythinkingaboutherwonderfulqualities。Insteadofcomlainingaboutyoursalary，begratefulthatyouhaveajob。RatherthanwishingyouwereabletotakeavacationtoHawaii，thinkofhowmuchfunyouhavehadclosetohome。Thelistofossibilitiesi
