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(2)Positivefeedbackcomesfromsuccessfuloutcomes.
(3)Successfuloutcomesaretheresultofconsistentracticeandreeatedattemts.
(4)Reeatedattemtsareossibleonlywhenwebelievewewilleventuallysucceed.
Theformulaseemstosaythatwemustbelieveinourabilitytosucceedbeforewehaveexeriencedanysemblanceofsuccess,andthatistrue.Thatswheretheknowledgeartoftheconfdenceformulacomesin,andwhyitisthefrstequationintheformula.Beforewecanbelievewewillsucceedwithouteverhavingmadeanattemt,wemusthavesomeknowledgeastowhatsuccessentailsandwhatstrengthsandabilitieswebringtothemix.Wemustalsoknowthetruthabout“failure”.
Failureisnottheresultofattemtingtoachieveagoalandfallingshortofthemark.Failureoccurswhenweallowfallingshortofthemarktocauseustoquittrying.Actually,thereareonlytwowaystofail.(1)Giveubeforeyoureachagoalyoureallywantor(2)continueonaaththatiswrongforyoubecauseyoumadeawrongchoiceinitiallyandbelievetheerroneouschoiceistheoneyoumuststaywith.
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